Feast of strangers

by Shane Solanki
The 21st century is deemed to be the age of communication, and yet people seem to be becoming more and more isolated.
Why? Professor Theodore Zeldin has an answer. “There is less and less time, and a great hunger for conversations that are not superficial,” he tells us. That’s why every year, Zeldin (born in Palestine in 1933, educated in Egypt and Oxford, French government advisor and author of ‘An Intimate History Of Humanity’) has a birthday party with a difference. For starters, he likes to invite as many strangers as he can to the party. He sits them down, partners them up, and offers them a menu of conversation. The menu lists topics and questions through which feasters can discover who sits opposite them, prompting conversation which explores intimacy, love, fear, sensuality, tolerance and many more delicious morsels which make up the meal we all are. Within minutes, shyness dissipates, curiosity is engaged, and you might find yourself telling a stranger what you really really want, what you’re afraid of, and who you’d like to be.
The Feast of Strangers is coming to a town near you soon. Look out for feasts in Europe, South America and Asia over the next year; we’ve heard of feasts being organised in Bangalore in December, and Sao Paolo in April. You could even organise one yourself, and if you contact us directly, we’ll put you in touch with Theodore. If all of us start talking to each other, regardless of age, occupation and belief, who knows what conversations, relationships and communities we can build over the coming generation.
